what do you do as a gay guy in wv? too bad about the board though, i checked out another state and they get together. ufortunately, i found gay men, the one's i have met to be gossipy fools. i hate that. geeze, i am not perfect, buti think a little respect would be nice. are you the bob who requests money? just wondering, perhaps this is why you are avoided? on another note, i am seeking healthy activities, not just sex. i am not one of those pride people, but gatherings are cool, even a j/o group. nothing, nada, zip. i don't expect gays to have similar interests, and some probably wouldn't involve me - we aren't all alike. i prefer to stay undercover in such a closed minded environment. in that respect, i believe i moved to the wrong state. what about you beyond this board?